How To Connect SkySafari 6 Pro + Meade Stella + Meade ETX-125? (Answer: Read On!)

 I just got a Meade Stella WiFi and a Meade audiostar 497, using my IPAD PRO tablet with SkysafariPro 6 -full version-  but I am getting a connection error staying that

"SkySafari 6 Pro can make a wireless connection to the scope, but the scope is not responding  Make sure it is connected and powered on. Also check that your scope type is correct.", 

I can see and activate the Stella wifi  on my table wifi connection but in SkysafariPro  using auto-detect skyfi read not found and if I disable it and use IP address 10.0.0.1 and port 4030 I get the above mentioned error despite of using  skysafariPro paying for the full features version

I am connecting the Meade cable #505 specifically listed for ETX-125 to the bottom of my Meade AudioStar 497 controller and still getting the same message

Please advise